Trust and how to

‘’What people don’t say to the family, don’t say to friends… say to a stranger in a tavern.’’ – quoted from Eça de Queiros

And why is that?!
Because people don’t seem to understand the real meaning of trust nowadays. Trust is that little something that brings people to their most fragile point, that point which can be assimilated to a brain surgery. And why, you wander around. Because at that point you (the trusted one) with a single act can rip apart all his/her world, by thinking too far ahead before acting, by acting recklessly, by simply wanting to embarrass him/her or even by trying to make something good but at the end, you fucked it up even more.

And when a person decides to resort to a stranger instead of family or friends, (it may look way awkward for the most of you but…) it is because they somehow know that in a way the truth would always change family/friends minds, and going for a stranger it would only diminish the consequences in the field of family/friends group. Basically the stranger would not somehow have anything against you and nothing that he could do after you’ve opened with him/her.

And by this I want to point out that nowadays the most common error is that people seek out people who they feel very friendly with and just think that nothing will go wrong, but somehow it almost always goes… because the one thing you need to go well is the right person to trust and not the friendliest.



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Made By: Atanásio


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